Staying on the subject of Weekly 15 Hours of Love; I am going to share with you what one of my weeks looked like. Although I address the need for weekly 15 hours spent with your spouses in my book, Silk On Fire:The Ultimate Guide On Craving Sex With Your Husband (check out book) I don't go into detail of what an actual week might look like. (Next time I'll give you an example of what our weekly 15 Hours of Love looks like now since all children are grown.) I still remember what one of our weeks looked like when I was a mom with 5 children in the home and 2 children attending college. Our Weekly 15 hours of Love looked something like this:
SUNDAY: 3-5pm Motorbike ride with spouse while Auntie watches the young ones plus collaborating over our schedule and syncing it for the week.
MONDAY: 5- 8pm --DATE NIGHT--the 15 year old babysits for 3 hours.
8-9pm After attending to baby, and getting him to sleep; 1 hour of intimacy with spouse
WEDNESDAY: 2-3pm Conversation after lunch. 8-10pm. Studying together for our class.
THURSDAY: 6-7am Breakfast upstairs in the office. (gave instructions to my oldest to
pick up baby when he awoke and change and play with him)
FRIDAY: 8-10pm A game of chess and foot rubs in the living room. children are sleeping or hanging out in rec room downstairs.
SATURDAY: 2-4pm Feed children and hired man early and while baby takes nap, Ian and I have lunch on the veranda. 8-10pm After young ones in bed and before teen gets home--intimacy!
Everyone's household is different and perks at a different rate but Weekly 15 Hours of Love always takes planning and scheduling. Then and today if we somehow miss the scheduled time we, as soon as possible, talk about it and see where we can change other things around to squeeze in the lost time.
And sometimes, just sometimes we get in more time than scheduled. Woo Hoo!
So until next time when I share what a current Weekly 15 Hours of Love looks like now that all children have grown and we are semi-retired from ranch---
Cheers, Karen
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