Hello Beautiful People!
In His Needs,
Her Needs, Dr. Willard Harley explains that a couple needs fifteen hours a
week alone together with no other family, friends, or acquaintances—that's
right, fifteen hours! When I read this I was into it! However my dear husband thought Harley was crazy. So we set out to prove him wrong while trying it out. After all we had 5 children ages ranging from baby to teens. I was home-educating and my husband was full time ranching and part-time pastoring. How could it possibly work?
With much planning and disciplined scheduling the 15 hours of Love became a reality, and my sexual desire for my husband rose! I kept track. As the 15 hours would sometimes wane to only 4-8 hours a week, I noticed that my annoyance with Ian over small things would increase and my desire for intimacy would decrease. We therefore plan our weekly schedule around our 15 Hours.
For 25 years we continue to prioritize our 15 hours of Love!
Your weekly 15 hours of love can be any time spent together, a game of chess, cycling or salting the sheep in the pasture, as long as it’s just the two of you together, communicating.
Cheers, Karen
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