Gratitude #5-- "His Physical Attributes"
When we are young the physical attributes are many...when we are older they maybe less, the abs are gone, full head of hair traded in for bald, loss of strength; but we can still think of some. I love my husbands legs, tight glutes and quads. His hands are so strong and sexy. His eyes look amazing and go with many shirt colours. His back is like a mountain of strength.
As we age,
we women are not turned on so much by the physical, but there are still things
we appreciate and it is good to concentrate on those.They, with the other gratitudes can bring us to a place of having sexy feelings again for our mate.
Wednesday, 7 February 2018
Tuesday, 6 February 2018
GRATITUDE SERIES: Gratitude #4
Gratitude #4-- What a great provider he is.
Many times I have been disappointed that my 'hot to trot' feelings for my husband just disappeared for a season. There have been times that, I want to have sexual intimacy but I find myself so sad that I am not feeling those great sexy feelings at the moment for my hubby. That's when I have to look at all the things I am grateful for. One of those is that he has always been there to provide for me and our children. And so I concentrate on what a champion he is; what a hero to go to work every day and hand over the paycheck for our family's needs. This intentional focus helps to stir up those 'hot to trot' feelings once again. Of course, as you know, I believe that there are a lot more things we women need to do and to stand up for in our relationship with our husbands other than just this. I talk extensively in my book about our needs as women and why we should hold our husbands accountable to meet them; but in this blog section, I am just concentrating on the Gratitude Series.
Many times I have been disappointed that my 'hot to trot' feelings for my husband just disappeared for a season. There have been times that, I want to have sexual intimacy but I find myself so sad that I am not feeling those great sexy feelings at the moment for my hubby. That's when I have to look at all the things I am grateful for. One of those is that he has always been there to provide for me and our children. And so I concentrate on what a champion he is; what a hero to go to work every day and hand over the paycheck for our family's needs. This intentional focus helps to stir up those 'hot to trot' feelings once again. Of course, as you know, I believe that there are a lot more things we women need to do and to stand up for in our relationship with our husbands other than just this. I talk extensively in my book about our needs as women and why we should hold our husbands accountable to meet them; but in this blog section, I am just concentrating on the Gratitude Series.
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