Gratitude #4-- What a great provider he is.
Many times I have been disappointed that my 'hot to trot' feelings for my husband just disappeared for a season. There have been times that, I want to have sexual intimacy but I find myself so sad that I am not feeling those great sexy feelings at the moment for my hubby. That's when I have to look at all the things I am grateful for. One of those is that he has always been there to provide for me and our children. And so I concentrate on what a champion he is; what a hero to go to work every day and hand over the paycheck for our family's needs. This intentional focus helps to stir up those 'hot to trot' feelings once again. Of course, as you know, I believe that there are a lot more things we women need to do and to stand up for in our relationship with our husbands other than just this. I talk extensively in my book about our needs as women and why we should hold our husbands accountable to meet them; but in this blog section, I am just concentrating on the Gratitude Series.
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